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When Passion Fades: A Raw Conversation About Long-term Intimacy - Ep.12

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Remember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? When every moment alone meant passionate connection? What happens when that fire dims to a flicker?

In this brutally honest conversation, three long-term relationship veterans dive into the question most couples are afraid to ask: where does the spontaneity go? Through laughter, confessions, and occasional wincing, we explore the complex reality of maintaining passion when life gets in the way.

The truth hits hard: children become unwitting "blockers," work stress follows us home, and aging bodies don't always cooperate with willing minds. We tackle the uncomfortable double standards that emerge when one partner desires connection while the other reaches for the remote control. Is it complacency that kills passion, or just the inevitable comfort that comes with years together?

Beyond simply identifying the problem, we explore practical solutions. Are scheduled date nights the answer? Could fantasy role-play reignite what once came naturally? And how do you even start that conversation without making things more awkward?

What emerges from our unfiltered discussion is a powerful truth about long-term relationships: as long as communication continues—whether through "college-level conversation" or honest bar talk—there's hope for rekindling connection. Physical intimacy might change form over the years, but the vulnerability required to maintain it remains constant.

For anyone who's ever looked at their partner and wondered where the passion went, this episode offers comfort, humor, and maybe even a roadmap back to connection. Because ultimately, maintaining intimacy isn't about recapturing what was, but creating something new that works for who you've both become.

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Jimmie & Rodney: 0:00

I was born for this. As Brother Byron would say, cue the music.

Dennis: 0:20

How old is this?

Jimmie & Rodney: 0:20

song Like 34 years, just about hey, hey, puppet Train family. What's happening? We hit you guys with another Friday edition of some good stuff. We are going to touch it off again. But before we start off, Rodney Q Love and I'm throwing it over to you. I'm Jimmy Jefferson. Dennis L Cotton, so you Dennis L Cutton. So you sound like you had a dream. I know that's right. How many syllables is in his name? I'm sorry, it's been a long week, chats. Let's toast it in. He didn't try and sound like he was British.

Dennis: 1:03

But I got a good Southern accent.

Jimmie & Rodney: 1:12

Well, gang, I've got a question that might not put us all in a doghouse. Okay, all right. Well, I mean anything. We say Pretty much, pretty much, I mean it don't take long.

Dennis: 1:22

It don't take long, pretty much, pretty much, I mean it don't take long.

Jimmie & Rodney: 1:24

It don't take long. But this is a piercing question that most men have, that you know. Sometimes we're you know, we don't want to ask the whys, we don't want to ask the significant others. But how come the passion and the spontaneity isn't there now, like it used to be? Oh, oh, oh, he doing it. He to be. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, he's doing it, he does. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. Welcome back, carter. Now you know again and I and I know this is a lingering question, but let's just look at some things Early on in your relationship, you guys couldn't get enough of each other.

Jimmie & Rodney: 2:06

You appalled each other. You tackled each other in the hallway, you know I mean every little thing that you could have thought of. You didn't. Then you know, I mean I understand the work and the kids and everything else. Then you know it simmered down. But when you tried to rekindle it it just wasn't there, not saying that you weren't trying, but the ferocity just wasn't there. And it gets to a point where if you see a little resistance, it's like, well, I might just roll on over and go to sleep. This is not the night for that. Oh, when she put on the, you ain't getting none starter pack and she put on the body I mean hey, we already know what time it is.

Jimmie & Rodney: 2:55

Oh yeah, I'm going to go sit on here and watch Monster Theater.

Dennis: 3:01

We're not going home tonight. No, we're not.

Jimmie & Rodney: 3:04

No, no, no, no, no. We're not. You'll be able to find us at any cigar bar. We'll be just standing on the outside. We ain't even going in. Oh God. But every person has had, every brother has had that question. Whether you're married or not, Whether you're married or not. We've all sat around that night thinking that we was going to get some, Only to be sitting there watching TV like damn, I guess I ain't.

Jimmie & Rodney: 3:38

But now I also want to throw one more boomerang. All right, that wasn't enough. Now, ladies, now ladies, when you guys are in the mood and y'all put on the lingerie, do all the stuff you know that you think is seductive, and what have you, and we come in. I'm just going to sleep, oh, my God, how do y'all feel about that? Ooh, okay, okay, you know okay. Ooh, how do y'all feel about that? Okay, okay, you know Okay. Bruh, bruh.

Dennis: 4:10

All right, Toast again. Oh shit Okay.

Jimmie & Rodney: 4:12

All right, before we get started on that, okay, because I got that, oh shit, okay. So a couple of things. First and foremost, reach us at puffanddrinks at gmailcom. You can reach us on youtube. Our youtube channel is puff and drinks. You can definitely take and make your comments on there. We will take and respond to you the whole nine yards if we're alive. Yeah, true that, true that. So, okay, okay, all right, a couple of things that come to mind with this and everything else.

Jimmie & Rodney: 4:41

And then you and I, you know we all been in this whole situation where you know life is life, right, you know, we hear that from the young folk Life is life, you know this whole adult thing, you know. So, all right, we get that, we understand that, all right. But at the same time, you know, and my wife would tell you and everything else and I joke about a lot and everything else but I always tell her, you know, in front of family. I tell her, you know, we get involved with that hot monkey love, you know. You know, and I know she'll be pissed about that, you know. But again, when we first started out, it was like that too. It was always like the hot monkey love, but it's just one of those things right now, and I think you know being married for 32 years and you know being with my wife going on 40 years, you know is one of those things where, yeah, I have had head shoes and I'm not going to lie, I'm a man.

Jimmie & Rodney: 5:38

I have had some issues and everything. I have some health issues.

Jimmie & Rodney: 5:41

As with all of us, you know, and some days are good, some days ain't bad, but you know. But there are days where you know everything also and there's everything's clicking shit. It is what it is, let's roll, you know, and that then you get that. I get it, I get it, I. But I think a lot of it too, be honest with you. I think is is a matter of what you did to get her and then the same thing, what she did to get you dissipates Right, it just goes away. Whether you're married or not, it just goes away. I don't know why in the hell it go away, but you know, you always hear all these so-called marriage counselors or counselors telling you. You know a couple of counselors you know. Well, you know you guys have to learn to rekindle it and blah, blah, blah.

Jimmie & Rodney: 6:31

Yeah, rekindling requires wood and fire, there you go, you know, and if ain't shit burning, then that's the way it is, you know. So, well, no, granted, granted, granted, I get that way it is. You know, well, now, granted, granted, granted, I get that. But again, there was a time you walked by each other a little spark boom, let's do it.

Dennis: 6:58

Turn on the air, yeah.

Jimmie & Rodney: 7:01

I mean, god damn, we sitting in this house on fire, we ain't going to eat tonight. And I guess the thing now is you know, when someone says oh well, you got to do X, y and Z as the spontaneity dissipates, so to speak, I'm just curious as to how do people feel about you? Know? I don't want to put it on my Google calendar, honey, how do you feel at 6 pm? Monday the 15th, we get ready to do it. Oh my God, I come in wearing my Batman outfit. Wow, we are so dead.

Dennis: 7:53

Man, I got to tell you this is a good time. We may not live the weekend, I know, I know.

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:00

I mean, you know, hey, this show doesn't come out until the end of the month. We're okay. Wow, dennis, I'm going to let you roll with that one.

Dennis: 8:11

Let's try to answer the question. What was the question again?

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:16

Question number one when did the spontaneity go?

Dennis: 8:21

Here's the thing, the passage of time. Kids responsibilities the passage of time.

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:28

Okay.

Dennis: 8:29

Complacency, no, comfortability. Ooh, that's a heavy word. There's nothing wrong with comfortability.

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:37

Okay, okay.

Dennis: 8:39

But comfortability and complacency are two words that I think will kill a marriage or a relationship.

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:47

Okay.

Dennis: 8:50

And you got to remember. You got to keep her. You got him, you got to keep her.

Jimmie & Rodney: 8:57

Yeah.

Dennis: 8:59

You made the suggestion and I know you're kind of being silly, but about the calendar Right? Look, some people can roll with it.

Jimmie & Rodney: 9:10

Well, that's stated, not implied. You know. If you already are good with that, I get that. That makes sense. I agree with you. Yes, let's think about it. You want me to walk out the shower? Look at that dope Looking juicy man. She, like you, know about to rub that lotion on her, Hot damn. Here we go, here we go, here we go, and all of a sudden, you like you know, you're sweating, You're drooling and whatnot. You just came in from cutting the grass, oh man. And when?

Jimmie & Rodney: 9:43

once you could have just dove across the room. She's like I have a meeting. You know, I don't want to have this mess. I just did my hair and you're sitting there like well, god damn it. Oh, my God, you know what? I think. A lot of it too. Again, and to Dennis's point, life is a bitch man.

Jimmie & Rodney: 10:11

It really is. It's rough and what triggered that moment? Even when you were, you know, right at the beginning of the early stages of your relationship and everything else. You know anything that you did you know was cute, you know it was all right. You know that kind of thing. You're in the kitchen and everything else. You're putting some goddamn piece of rolls in, goddamn it. We. You know it's getting ready to get started, you know, but now it's like okay, that shit ain't gonna happen, I'm gonna go ahead and get some nap first. You know what I mean.

Jimmie & Rodney: 10:49

Well gentlemen, I might as well throw this last bull right here. Hey shit, you done enough, you done enough.

Dennis: 10:54

Hell, what more you got.

Jimmie & Rodney: 10:56

Since we're all gonna be in that one bed room. There you go, lonely arms. Now I understand all of life's unpleasantries and you know all of life's unpleasantries and you know, when she's sitting there looking at me like the laughing dog, like come on, come on, come on, fine, just take it. Then I'm not interested. It's like I don't want it. If you don't want to give it to me.

Jimmie & Rodney: 11:24

Right, right, right I don't want you to just hike up a leg and get over with me. Oh my God, I don't want you to just hike up a leg and get over with me Done yet, done yet. Goddamn, I got to type up some.

Dennis: 11:38

Hurry up.

Jimmie & Rodney: 11:39

Oh, my God you know what.

Jimmie & Rodney: 11:46

Having daughters and everything else just having children, having children in the house also. They are your blockers. They've been your blockers, trust me, once they come into the game. They're your blockers, whether you want it or not. Then everybody got to go to work, boom Got to work and everything else. You got to deal with that bullshit. Then you got to turn around and deal with the whole nine yards. Okay, you know you ain't feeling good today, or I'm not feeling good today, that kind of shit. Then next thing, you know where. Everybody good, everything is good. You didn't have the conversation, the whole nine yards. There have been times 7, 8, 12, 15, 17,000. 15, 11. You know 15, 17,000. 15, 11.

Jimmie & Rodney: 12:28

You know, 15, 11. 15, 11 times, 15, 11 times, 15, 11 times, where you're ready to go. God damn it, it's ready to go, I don't care what you say, it's ready. And then, next thing you know, you're like wah, wah, wah, it's like dude, the signals ain't connected. No, no, no, signals are cut off. Gee, I wonder what's on TV.

Dennis: 12:55

Yeah, here we go.

Jimmie & Rodney: 12:57

I wasn't watching Netflix tonight, but I guess I will. You know again. You know, I think that we've all been in that cycle, and then even you know being married or not and everything else, I think it takes a. It's a whole different ball of wax because and to Dennis's point, I agree with him 100 percent it's complacency. Well, we can say complacency, but when?

Jimmie & Rodney: 13:28

they want it, ain they ain't complacent, you need to get your shit together. All of a sudden, when they reticule, the earth can stop and it's like I don't care if the house is burning, get your ass in there. If we say, baby, can I just touch it? No, I just want to look at it. Okay, I'll go sit in the corner.

Jimmie & Rodney: 13:55

Yeah, there you go there, you go, wow, and you know and to Dennis' point I guess you know once again about the complacency and comfortability that shit's true. I could go out and do 100 pull-ups try against the Mavs, and it'd still come out the same.

Dennis: 14:21

Okay, alright.

Jimmie & Rodney: 14:22

It's on you, dennis, it's on me, it's on you. Give us some wisdom.

Dennis: 14:25

Alright, here's the thing. We're getting older. Speak for yourself.

Jimmie & Rodney: 14:35

You're getting older. Turn the heat down. No, it's cold in here.

Dennis: 14:42

I'm not a gynecologist or whatever, but I think the age thing might affect women a little bit more than us. Bottom line is the desire. It can dwindle, and but the thing is, you can, you can. I don't know if you can stop it, but you can slow it down.

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:05

OK elaborate.

Dennis: 15:05

If you're exercising, you keep it in shape and you you're taking your supplements and blah, blah, blah. And she says, well, you know what, he is a good-looking guy, I think I'll hook him up. And if my man says, well, you know what, she got that nice booty. I want to touch on that every now and then, Every now and then.

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:21

So.

Dennis: 15:21

I mean, there's a lot more than just mental and physical. Now I would say this if the physical goes, it's a wrap.

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:31

If the physical goes, I mean if you're married. I mean it's for better or for worse.

Dennis: 15:36

I can care less then I understand that, but putting myself in a woman's head, if she is, I hate to use the word menopause, but it's the thing I mean, it's the change. Well, they go through the menopause and we the word menopause, but it's the thing I mean, it's the change.

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:50

Well, they go through the menopause and we go through menopause.

Dennis: 15:53

And that's true. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, what'd you say?

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:56

Menopause.

Dennis: 15:57

Menopause what's that?

Jimmie & Rodney: 15:58

We actually have the same things that happen to us. We don't go through the flashes and everything else. What'd you say? We do have issues where our hormonal levels are lower. Our testosterone levels are lower, exactly, and this is for all the men out there. It doesn't matter.

Dennis: 16:15

There's no shame in it. There is no shame in it.

Jimmie & Rodney: 16:18

But at the same time you know, sometimes you get to the party and you pull out your hat and that hat ain't ready. The mind is willing and you pull out your hat and that hat ain't ready the mind is willing but the body ain't able.

Jimmie & Rodney: 16:36

You know you already said you was ready to roll and shit everything else ain't rolling with you. And it's the same for women. Absolutely, absolutely it is. But again, I agree with you know, it's Rodney and everything else, where you get to a certain point in your relationship that it doesn't matter where you're married or not. I have to emphasize that that you were, were. Where is intimacy does take, you know, and go in different directions. It does, you know. And in the beginning you know, when you're first meeting each other and you, you know everything, you, you could take it and let's be real, it's y'all know it too, you know y'all. You could take a fart and it's like, oh, that's so cute.

Dennis: 17:23

You are nasty, ass, ass, but that's you all right, you know come over here and give me a kiss, your nasty ass.

Jimmie & Rodney: 17:37

You know I mean it was. It was crazy man it was crazy. I mean, you think about it here. Let's have sex in the kitchen while I'm cooking grits there, there you go. Now, all of a sudden, I don't want you walking on the floor. I just mopped that desk, did you see? I just changed it. Oh my God, get your nasty ass out of here, you know? Okay, all right.

Jimmie & Rodney: 17:58

All right, I think that. I mean, my breath didn't start stinging until you got older. Even when we were younger, when your shit was a little gamey, you were like you know you could kiss a butt drunk. That's my baby. There you go Go rinse. Oh my God, you smell just like a brewery.

Dennis: 18:30

Yeah.

Jimmie & Rodney: 18:31

Or my favorite. My favorite is they will sleep with you all night long. Now the snoring keeps you up. I'm like girl, I snore before it bothers me now. But you know, when we was first going out you was okay with that and everything else. It was cute, but I thought your ass was going to stop.

Dennis: 18:57

Now look, gentlemen. Should we not try to Find an answer to this question? Well, there is an answer to the question.

Jimmie & Rodney: 19:04

That's why we're putting it out to the masses.

Dennis: 19:05

We're putting it out to the masses. We're putting it out to the masses.

Jimmie & Rodney: 19:07

We're asking, you know again, we're obviously not sex perils, no, or no.

Dennis: 19:15

We're seeking salvation as we are.

Jimmie & Rodney: 19:19

You know anybody out there that feels like they want to comment. They can always go out to Puffin Drinks on our YouTube channel and they can feel free. Let us know. Let us know. We'll even give you a glass engraved. How come we can't get none? We'll let you know.

Dennis: 19:37

We'll let you know. We'll let you know it worked.

Jimmie & Rodney: 19:43

If you offer sane advice, let us know. And again, we know that it's not just always the woman's side of the thing and we go through our shit too and everything else we bring to the table. You know the things that are going on in our work life and I can tell you now, on both sides of the fence, work life will fuck up a hole, it will tear up a hole, whether you want it to. It will come into your relationship whether you want it to or not, and Lord knows good, good luck in getting it out. Sometimes you know it could be a simple thing and sometimes it could be something that lasts for a while until that person takes and makes a change. So I mean hell. We've all experienced this.

Dennis: 20:27

Especially when we're on the road.

Jimmie & Rodney: 20:29

It takes one damn day just to sleep yes, unfiltered sleep. Then it's like damn, I got to not think about this goddamn job. Yep, or then, you know, I got to not think about this bill. Think about all the upcoming pending stuff, then maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe I'll have a good hour, maybe I'm going to toss you one and it's going to be the best hour you ever had.

Jimmie & Rodney: 21:02

Best hour you ever had. Baby, you remember them days where I used to go six Not anymore, Baby. You remember them days where I used to go six.

Dennis: 21:06

Not anymore.

Jimmie & Rodney: 21:08

Baby, I'm going to condense it. You're getting a solid hour and it ain't going to be all pounding. We're going to disperse, we're going to differentiate, we'll work our way up to that. We are in so much trouble, oh my God we're in so much trouble.

Jimmie & Rodney: 21:33

But hey, we asked the question. Yes, looking for logic. Yeah, looking for logic that, you know, most of us all want to know. Yes, I mean maybe, like you said, the calendar thing works, I'm willing to try Shit. Like you said, the calendar thing works, I'm willing to try anything there's got to be an understanding and a willingness.

Dennis: 21:58

Now, like I said, the calendar thing, maybe the date night, and then after that maybe there's got to be communication. Now, I agree with you on the date night. I'm that maybe there's got to be communication.

Jimmie & Rodney: 22:07

Now, I agree with you on the date night and I'm with Dennis on that too, and I think you do it too. Rocky too, we do do the date night. We try to catch certain things where okay, now, I usually go down to my man cave and everything else where I go down. Most of the time she usually hears me down there while I'm crying, you know of time she usually hears me down there while I'm crying, you know I am, I am in so much goddamn trouble. Okay, are you rocking in the corner? You know I. Sometimes I change the game up, I change it up. I just don't go downstairs, I'll stay upstairs, you know, and you know we try to do some things a little bit differently that way. But again, life is life. You know, life is life way. But again, life is life. You know, life is life. I mean, I've had to get used to just sitting there like she's gonna walk in any minute. Oh man, gun smoke is on you watching, gun smoke. Yes, I guess I better pull up these pads.

Dennis: 23:25

I'm getting touched in these motherfuckers.

Jimmie & Rodney: 23:29

He's in good smoke.

Dennis: 23:31

God damn, how old are we?

Jimmie & Rodney: 23:37

I mean, it's just like anything else.

Dennis: 23:41

You know I think too.

Jimmie & Rodney: 23:42

And then let's be realistic Expectations change.

Dennis: 23:45

Yep.

Jimmie & Rodney: 23:45

Yeah, they do. But now again, we're fucked anyway. But now, where was the times when you could sit down and watch porn Together, together, and critique it? Yes, now, why are you watching that shit? What's the matter with you? You know it's You're disgusting. Are you addicted to that shit? No, baby, I just thought it was, you know. No, you picked these out when-.

Dennis: 24:19

Yeah, you know, Remember when Flight Buster closed?

Jimmie & Rodney: 24:21

I mean you know, I mean you know, I mean, I thought you was into the hot butter booties too.

Dennis: 24:30

I mean, I got the DVR, you can pull out the VHS tapes and shit. If this is the last time I see you guys.

Jimmie & Rodney: 24:42

I know that's right. See you boys on the other side. It was real, I know that's right. I know that's right. See boys on the other side. It was real, I know that's right. Man, yeah, we probably did. Dead man walking.

Dennis: 24:56

Dead man, walking man. Oh, you're killing me, oh God.

Jimmie & Rodney: 25:02

I agree with you. This was a good conversation, man, because again, this is one of those situations where you know, as men who've been in relationships for long periods, you know it's, it's a, it's, it's a lot, it's a lot, it's a lot. You know and and you do. You and I don't want to always have that conversation and I'm just gonna be honest with you, I don't always want to have that conversation about intimacy. I just don't right, you know, to me and I think it applies to any man, you know you don't want to have it. If everything is going good, shit, all right. You know we should be tearing some shit up, you know, you know, that's my whole point.

Jimmie & Rodney: 25:42

You know what I'm saying you know, but again, you know, she can't read my mind, I can't read hers. So I think a lot of times that's how that sometimes plays out. Well, but who clams up the quickest? Ooh, good question, good question. He is trying to get our ass killed. I know, that's right, he is trying to get our ass killed. Stop asking questions, goddammit. Will you please stop asking questions. Oh, my God, how much time do we have left? Lord, have mercy? Fifteen minutes? Oh shit, we have eight minutes.

Dennis: 26:18

Oh, my God.

Jimmie & Rodney: 26:19

Thank God, oh my God, okay, okay, I'm not even going to answer that question. I just think that over time, that you know, just like Dennis said you do Complacency takes place. There's also, you know, the fact that you know if you got children, that takes, oh my God, oh yeah, you know. We hate to admit it, but they are they are blockers, they are blockers.

Jimmie & Rodney: 26:45

Well, okay, okay, okay. Here's another groundbreaking question. He won't stop, this man just won't stop. Then should date night be fantasy night man, mmm, yeah, mmm, since we couldn't, you know, do all the stuff with the kids running around. Right, the car broke and this is late. Stuff with the kids running around and the car broke and this is late, or whatever the case.

Dennis: 27:11

It can be. It can be anything you want.

Jimmie & Rodney: 27:12

Can we live our fantasy night?

Dennis: 27:16

See if you're down with it exactly. Wait a minute.

Jimmie & Rodney: 27:21

How do you present that? Can you just say honey?

Dennis: 27:26

you know those tips I got at Blockbuster.

Jimmie & Rodney: 27:29

We doing it, can we?

Dennis: 27:31

say that. I think that's true, no. Honey, can we do that? Think about it. You know, how to rip your drawers off.

Jimmie & Rodney: 27:40

You know, okay, yeah, okay, with them stretch pants, you know, I mean, you know, oh, man, you are going to get our ass killed, oh don't.

Jimmie & Rodney: 27:50

No, that's right. And see, I think that, with the scripting and everything else, when you go that route, when you're doing something like that, when you're planning on for a fantasy night or you know, a role-playing night, that kind of thing, I got my Jason man. You know that, you know, I, I, I don't know if that's, I don't know if that's a good thing or not, I really don't know. Shit, I'm going to be honest with you. I mean, if you, you might as well go for broke. Yeah, true that You've tried everything else I mean, hey, I want the Falcon wings.

Jimmie & Rodney: 28:27

I want to come in here and, like the red hope with the falcon wings, oh my God, I want her coming in like the Red Hulk. We are so dead. Lord, have mercy. All right, I'll be in the cave, doris, you know where I'm at, jesus. Okay, I think we had a yeah, a spirited conversation, a very spirited conversation. I mean, gentlemen, if you have anything that you'd like to pontificate on, Only thing I would ask Is that, if there's any Relationship experts out there, feel free to comment.

Jimmie & Rodney: 29:01

Please give us a call. We will relish your information. You can reach us on all our channels. Puffin Trinks. All you got to do is look for us, look for our logo and follow us through and subscribe. We would love to hear how can we actually spice up the? Love life For the older folks. Get back to the whoopee, get back to the whoopee. Get back to the whoopee, get back to the whoopee, or even one about this. How do we actually contain the woe, I'm sorry? The woo, the woo.

Jimmie & Rodney: 29:36

The woo, the sequence of the woo, I'm at a point, just throw me a cookie. We are so dead. Well, ms, miss Denner, just say it. Give us some wisdom, wisdom man.

Dennis: 29:55

Well, we are proud African-American black men and we're not going to beg.

Jimmie & Rodney: 30:00

Yeah we are.

Dennis: 30:01

We're going to beg.

Jimmie & Rodney: 30:05

I'm begging. God damn it, god damn it, I will whine, I will whine, I will whine, I ain't gonna lie. I will say this.

Dennis: 30:15

As long as there's communication, it's whining, it could be whining. It could be college level conversation, it could be conversation at the bar. As long as it's conversation, there's hope, there's hope.

Jimmie & Rodney: 30:33

This man is speaking wisdom.

Dennis: 30:35

Hope. Sure, I'm older than all of you by a couple of months, so thank you, I appreciate that.

Jimmie & Rodney: 30:44

Well, gang, we are going to immerse ourselves in our last drink.

Dennis: 30:48

Well, I kept drinking man I kept drinking.

Jimmie & Rodney: 30:53

I kept drinking.

Dennis: 30:56

Our cups are off. Can you bring us some drinks, sir, please?

Jimmie & Rodney: 31:04

Well, gang, we are about to sign off and hopefully we'll see you guys. Yes, yes, we about to sign off and hopefully we'll see you guys next week. Yes, yes, yes, october might be a hell of a month. Well, it is Halloween. There you go, rodney Q Love, I'm Jimmy Jefferson, dennis L Catton, and we'll see y'all on the other side there you go.

Dennis: 31:26

Y'all take care now Toast our empty cups. There you go.

Jimmie & Rodney: 31:30

There you go. Oh my God, y'all have a good night.

Dennis: 31:35

Dude, he's a drinker, not just now, I'm sorry.

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